Sunday, April 10, 2011

The Power of The Hug (Repost)

This is a post I made back in 2007. I still believe in its power. Read on and enjoy.
The moment I came out from my mom's womb the first thing that I received from the angel who was to be my mother, was a hug. The second her arms closed around my wriggly fragile body and as she kissed my little button nose, I knew I was loved. All throughout my life, my parents' hugs assured me that I was safe and loved. So I went through my life confident that I can do anything and be anything I wanted. And as I grew up , I seem to be needing a lot of those warm hugs to make me feel better. When I fall and graze my knee, when I spill milk on the floor, when I just feel a little blue, a hug would make me feel better. When I got a little older I became a little jaded and concerned with propriety. I began to think that big girls don't need hugs, it was a sign of weakness - I wanted people to know that I am independent and strong. However, when I was having a bad day and there was too much pressure in school, all of it will fade away as soon as my mom would give me a hug... just like the old times.

I give and get hugs from my daughters all the time, when they have their arms wrapped tightly around me, I feel that it is me who gets healed in the process. Here are some quotes about hugs:


A hug is like a boomerang - you get it back right away. ~Bil Keane, "Family Circus"


Millions and millions of years would still not give me half enough time to describe that tiny instant of all eternity when you put your arms around me and I put my arms around you. ~Jacques Prévert


You can't wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug. ~Author Unknown


Hug Department: Always Open ~Author Unknown


I love hugging. I wish I was an octopus, so I could hug ten people at a time. ~Drew Barrymore


Arm ourselves for war? No! All the arms we need are for hugging. ~Author Unknown


A hug is a handshake from the heart. ~Author Unknown


A hug delights and warms and charms,that must be why God gave us arms.~Author Unknown


A hug is the shortest distance between friends. ~Author Unknown


A hug is a great gift - one size fits all, and it's easy to exchange. ~Author Unknown


A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the fragrance. ~Proverb

Received this video in the mail, it's about Juan Mann who's giving out Free Hugs all over the globe. Loved it! Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at PhotobucketNever wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today,because when you give one, you get one right back your way. Hugggsss to all of you.

3 comments:

louann said...

The feeling of touch is very powerful.

Coupon Trunk said...

Hugs are so much more powerful than people realize. When my daughter was a toddler, and I would scold her for some little thing, her lip would get all quivery and eyes all watery and she'd say, "You're mad at me." I would reassure her that I wasn't, her face would instantly brighten, and she'd say "You just love me?" The world's most awesome hug would always follow, and we would both go around grinning for hours.

surjit singh said...

A wonderful post.Quotes on Hugs are truly inspiring.
Thanks Sophia for sharing it and visiting my blog.