Saturday, May 19, 2007


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When I was little,
I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
and then I started to become a woman.

And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends..

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.
Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say, "Let's cry together,"
another, "Let's fight together,"
another, "Let's walk away together."

One friend will meet your spiritual need,
another your shoe fetish,
another your love for movies,
another will be with you in your season of confusion,
another will be your clarifier,
another the wind beneath your wings.

But whatever their assignment in your life,
on whatever the occasion,
on whatever the day,
or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair
pulled back,
or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ..
those are your best friends.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman,
but for many, it's wrapped up in several...
one from 7th grade,
one from high school,
several from the college years,
a couple from old jobs,
on some days your mother,
on some days your neighbor,
on others, your sisters,
and on some days, your daughters.

got this in the mail today and thought I'd share it with all the new friends I met through blogging, you've all made a big difference in my life=)


surjit said...

Really a thoughtful post.Thanks for sharing with us.Best wishes.

Dream Catcher said...

Sweet and very true...we should try to find best in many friends..
but its hard...ha..ha..friedns now ppl often takes them who can share a dirty joke..whom u have a cofee any time..what we often dont get is a shoulder to cry on

Sophiagurl said...

thanks Surjit and dream catcher for the comments. do agree that it's hard finding friends whose shoulder you can cry on. hope you don't need to cry on anybody's shoulder dream catcher=)

Dream Catcher said...

but sometimes...there is a place in ur heart where u keep urself all alone...n u cry...n its tough to cme back from that..then u feel the need of a companion...this need wish it goes

Kelly M said...

I too have recieved this several times in email! I love it and it is SO true!! Thanks for sharing!